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"I don't go to school with a bunch of hateful people, which is what I thought before. I thought I was surrounded by homophobic people that would hate me if they knew."
"I never thought that I could actually feel such peace by accepting myself as the way I am."
"I was really surprised to realize that I wasn't alone."
"It gets better."
"It gets better."
"It does get better."
A new It Gets Better video featuring current Brigham Young University students offers a moving look at life for LGBT students and their allies breaking free from fear, shame and confusion in their all-Mormon campus. It's a breakthrough message to the rest of us that change is already coming to BYU.
All students, regardless of sexual orientation, are expected to adhere to the University's Honor Code, which calls for "a chaste and virtuous life." Since sex is prohibited for the entire student body, the administration is able to focus on identity and feelings rather than actions. In 2008, BYU altered the honor code to specifically protect LGBT students from discrimination, stating that it "welcomes as full members of the university community all whose behavior meets university standards." By 2010, BYU students, faculty, and community members formed a gay-straight alliance group (USGA). While those who are openly LGBT may enroll at BYU, it is still required that they strictly adhere to the Mormon rules by remaining celibate
For many BYU students, there's one relationship that trumps all others, more even significant than relationships with family, friends, or significant others. So how can a faith-based youth culture shift a divine perspective? For these students, clarity and courage came from experiencing spiritual harmony more powerful than traditional social standards ever offered.
"I felt so much peace inside knowing that God, He loved me for who I was."
"You might not know how to reconcile your Mormonism and your sexuality, but I want to tell you that there's a space for you."
"I found peace when I started helping others."
"It gets better -- even on this campus."
"It gets better."
"It really does get better."
Watch the video below for proof. WARNING: May induce tears. Keep tissues close at hand.